Saturday, November 12, 2011

Get a Melissa & Doug 25% Off Coupon When You Take the North "Poll"

Chelsea emailed me last week and asked if I wanted to participate in a Melissa & Doug coupon give-away.

Heck yes!

I love Melissa & Doug.

Some of Spencer's favorite Melissa & Doug items are:

The alphabet puzzle 
The "P" was lost for the longest time (like over a year) but was thankfully recovered from behind the TV.
The slicing fruit set 
He's a regular Iron Chef with this thing.

The Responsibility Chart
We haven't really started using it for chores yet, but he does love all the magnets.
The animal stamps
For a while we all had animals covering our arms all the time.
Melissa & Doug want you to tell them which of their educational toys you think is the best! Just click on the image below to place your vote in the North "Poll!" You'll Get a Melissa & Doug 25% Off Coupon to use at MelissaAndDoug.com just for voting!


Christmas is coming soon.
 Take the survey.  Go shopping.  Save money! 

Thursday, November 10, 2011

Get your jam on

When Spencer was just a wee little thing I dressed him, almost exclusively, in one piece outfits.  You know the kind-  feet built in, snap up or zip up, cute little animal on the front.  Likely made by Carters.  They are easy, adorable and cheap to buy.
In hindsight these outfits may have been the reason he cried non-stop for 4 months. 
It's a working theory based on what happened when Spencer was about two.  That was the winter that he was old enough to actually voice an opinion and his opinion was that he HATED the built-in feet.  So I had to cut all the feet off of his pajamas.  Then he was OK.
Last winter, being the dare devil I am, I bought a pair of footy pajamas thinking that maybe he had changed his ways.  They were a no go.  But I didn't cut the feet off.  We just kept them in the drawer all winter.

We had a cold front move in over the weekend and Spencer told us that he was cold in his bed.  The easy solution would be to sleep under the covers, but he still refuses to do that, so we pulled out the footy pajamas.  He put them on and thought they were awesome.  He just laughed and laughed about how cool they were and how they had feet on them.
Since they went over so well we went to Costco on Monday and bought 2 more pairs.

They have been equally well received.
I am so happy, especially because he looks delicious in them.
Additionally, in non-pajama related news, in was cold enough to wear fleece this week.  This is the official 4 year-2 month picture.  I posted it on facebook and my friend Sandra told me she had just bought this outfit for Elliott.  I am so excited that my boys will have a matching outfit.  I can't wait.
On our Tuesday night walk Spencer wore a winter hat and a jacket.  It was that cold.
This is our front yard.  I did not let him shake the tree in a neighbor's yard.  Paul the fish is buried under that brick.  Spencer thinks he is lonely and tries to visit him as much as I will let him.

Tuesday, November 8, 2011

Stats

Blogger has a very interesting feature known as Stats.  I started blogging in December, 2008.  The Stats tab became "operational" in May, 2009, but I didn't really notice it until about 6 months ago.  Once I started checking it though, it became a habit to check it regularly.

I copied this on Sunday.  I don't track my own pageviews so this is the tally of how many other pageviews there are on my blog from May '09 until Sunday.  The all time history number blows my mind.  I assume my mother and mother-in-law account for, like, half of that. 

It's hard to read this next chart.  I apologize. I can't change the colors or make it any bigger. 

These are the page views of individual blog posts.  My most popular, with 337 views, is Wonder Pets. Rounding out the top five are, A Girly Room (194 views), then Sleep (124 views), then Vermont: Day 3 (104 views), then Thanksgiving and Peanut Butter (cake and jelly) (82 views).

I get a spam comment on Sleep at least once a day and usually two a day.   I've debated taking that post down just to stop the spam.
This chart shows my #6-10 most viewed posts.
This chart better explains why some of these posts are viewed most often.  It you google "wonder pets" my blog shows up in the results.  That's why that post been viewed over 300 times.  "Jumbo cupcakes" is responsible for the popularity of the Muffins and Cupcakes post.  My favorite search is "sloth from the goonies".  That explains the Vermont, Day 3 post.  I used a picture of him in that post.
(Refresh your memory here.)
These are the stats that puzzle me the most.  These numbers are for all time history of page views.  Obviously most are going to come from the United States.  I live here and everybody I know lives here.
575 views from South Korea.  Really?
Is this guy sneaking over the border at night to get his blog on?

193 views from Malaysia?  Huh?

150 views from Russia?  Former Roommate Megan?  Did you log on to my blog A LOT when you traveled there the past two years?

I want to know who is reading my blog from these places.  Speak up.

Sunday, November 6, 2011

Controlled chaos

I have blogged before about the get-togethers we have had with Laura, Chelsea and Karen and their families. We've had pool parties, Christmas parties and dumpling making parties.  We've been to the zoo.  We all spent the weekend together in Pinetop.

I volunteered to host our Fall 2011 get-together.
The day started at the Phoenix Children's Museum.

Michael and Spencer spent some time in a flying bathtub.
The kids played with the coolest sand table.
And rode bikes through the car wash.


There was painting.


And grocery shopping.



Spencer made a delicioso pizza.
The men waited and waited and waited for a beer.
We forgot to take a group picture of the four of us, but we did get two in one and two in another.

After the museum and lunch at Jason's Deli, Karen and her family went back to their house for nap time.  Everyone else came to our house where nobody napped.

The kids spent the afternoon tearing the house apart and then Karen and crew came back over for a chili feast.

We moved our kitchen table into the dining room so everybody could sit together.



This was the best we could do for a picture of the entire group. Josh is taking the picture, Tyler is hidden and all that can be seen of me is my hand.  It'll have to do.  It's hard to get 12 people (5 of them under the age of 5) in one shot.
Chelsea, Lilly, Zac, Laura, Josh and Sara all spent the night on Saturday.  It was amazingly calm and everybody slept.

This morning we loaded all of the kids up and headed to breakfast.  Tyler was sick so they did not come meet us.  Boo.

The aftermath of all of this was that we now have a lot of chili in the freezer waiting for when Elliott is born and I took a 3 hour nap today.

The next get together is at Chelsea's house for Christmas.  After that we'll be adding two more children to the mix: Elliott and a as-of-now-unnamed-baby-girl in Laura's belly.

One more baby and the kids will overtake the adults.  Yikes.

Friday, November 4, 2011

29 weeks

I entered week #29 of this pregnancy on Wednesday.  There are 8 more weeks until I am full term and 11 more weeks until my due date.

I had a check-up and ultrasound on Tuesday.  The ultasound tech did a careful examination and took extra pictures of the placenta, cervix and pockets of amniotic fluid to see if there was any indication as to what caused the bleeding at Disneyland.  There is nothing out of the ordinary.  Everything looks normal and healthy.

About 4 days before the ultrasound I told Michael that I thought Elliott was turning head down.  There was one day that I felt a whole lot of movement that felt very strange.  It took my breath away to be perfectly honest.  Sure enough, the ultrasound confirmed he is head down.  The tech tried and tried and tried to get a good shot of his face, but this is what he was doing the whole time:
 
He's going to have to get over being camera shy if he's going to be a part of this family.

These were the best she could do.


Also, no 3-D or 4-D pictures this time.  That was a little disappointing.

Other highlights of the appointment:

Elliott was reconfirmed as being male.

My glucose tolerance screening was normal.  No gestational diabetes.

Elliott is measuring 7 days ahead of my due date.  Based on my due date I was 28 weeks 6 days at the time of the ultrasound.  Based on his size I was 29 weeks 6 days.  They did not, however, change my due date.

Elliott's current size is estimated at 3 pounds 3 ounces.  It's the 66th Percentile.  The average for 29 weeks is 2 pounds 8 ounces.  My comments about that:
1) It is crazy that there are percentiles for fetuses.
2) Spencer was in the 50% Percentile for about 35 seconds when he turned 1.  Other than those 35 seconds he has been between the 1st and 20th Percentiles for his whole life.  For about 6 months (between 3 and 9 months) he actually fell off the growth chart.  66th Percentile seems remarkably large.
3) I feel guilty that Elliott is not even born and I'm already comparing the two.

We can't wait to meet him.  After December 28th. 

Wednesday, November 2, 2011

A big deal

I have a loooooooong history of orthodontia.

Let me give you a looooooooong explanation of this looooooooong history.  I was born with a class III malocclusion.  A malocclusion is a misalignment of teeth and/or incorrect relation between the teeth of the two dental arches. A Class III malocclusion, also known as a mesiocclusion, is when the lower front teeth are more prominent than the upper front teeth. In this case the patient very often has a large mandible or a short maxillary bone.   I had a short maxillary bone (upper jaw).

When I was in third grade I got my first of two rapid palate expanders.  I had the second one in sixth grade.  A rapid palate expander is a device used to widen the upper jaw so that the bottom and upper teeth will fit together better.  It looks like this:


Basically my mom would put a small key into the middle and turn it twice a day.  The expander (literally)  ripped my musculature and bone apart to expand my palate.  And I had two of these torture devices. 

I also had braces put on in sixth grade.  They came off in ninth grade.

The result of all of this orthodontia as a child was that I had really pretty, straight teeth and still horribly misaligned jaws.

My maxilla (upper jaw) was so misaligned with my mandible (lower jaw) that my midlines (the middle point of my teeth) were off by 4 millimeters.

The result of this was that my teeth were wearing out at an extreme rate because the wrong teeth hit the wrong teeth whenever I chewed.  I was told that my teeth probably wouldn't last past my 50's if I didn't do something about it.  I also had extreme muscle pain in my temples, neck and back.  My jaws were so misaligned that adjacent muscles (in my neck and back) had to "help out" when I was talking and chewing. 

I found out about all of this when I was in graduate school.  Not an ideal time to start another round of orthodontia.  I put it off and put it off.

Then one day, my first year out of graduate school, I yawned at work and my mouth got stuck open.  I could not close it.  It hurt.  A lot.  I had to use my hands to push my mouth closed.

By this point I had gotten 8 separate opinions- from 6 orthodontists and 2 oral surgeons.  They all, independently of each other, recommended the same thing: another round of braces and oral surgery.

So, when I was 25, I did it.  I became an adult with braces.  They cost a bundle.  When I was 26 I had a  Le Fort I Osteotomy to finally fix the relationship of my jaws. A Le Fort I Osteotomy involves separating the maxilla and the palate from the skull above the roots of the upper teeth through an incision inside the upper lip.  My surgeon moved my maxilla forward by 4 millimeters and rotated it forward slightly.  Then my maxilla was fixed in its new position with 4 titanium plates and 17 screws.

This is my face: 
That surgery is truly the most hideous thing that has ever, ever, ever happened to me.  I cannot even use words to describe how painful it was.  It took 3 weeks before I stopped considering jumping off a cliff, 6 weeks before I ate any solids and 10 weeks before I felt close to what I had felt before. 

My sinuses were cut open and the bones that make up my eye sockets were moved so I felt pain throughout my entire face.  I was sensitive to light.  I had to sleep sitting up for weeks because there was so much swelling that my air way was compromised if I layed down.  I still (5 years later) do not have full sensory function in my upper gums because all of those nerves were severed.

  I used to have nightmares that something went wrong and I was told I had to have the surgery again.  I would wake up all sweaty and crying.

Now that you know all of that you can imagine how I felt when I was told, when Spencer was 3, that he also has a Class III malocclusion.

I was crushed.

Can you imagine, knowing what I know and going through what I have gone through, thinking about your baby going through all of that?

I cried.  Many times.

That's why, when Spencer was 3, I took him to my orthodontist, whom I trust more than just about anybody.   They tried to take x-rays.  Fail.  They tried to take pictures.  Epic fail.  The Dr. was able to see him bite though, and he confirmed the malocclusion.  He told us to come back when Spencer was 4 and that we'd start treatment when he was 5.  He also said that my misalignment was "severe" and Spencer's, at this point, is "moderate" but has the potential to be severe if we don't do something about it.

We went in for another appointment 2 weeks ago.  This time they didn't even attempt x-rays, but they got all the pictures they needed.  Spencer was such a trooper.  The pictures involve all sorts of lip spreading contraptions and mirrors in the mouth, so they are not comfortable.

Once they took all the pictures we had our consultation.  Spencer got to play with models of teeth while we waited.

These are some of the pictures they took.  You can see how his bottom teeth come out further than his top teeth.
Here's the plan:

The Dr. still wants to start treatment next year when Spencer turns 5.  He does not use rapid palate expansion like I had as a kid.  Rather he uses slow fixed palate expansion with a facial mask.  It is less painful and works better.  A win-win.  This combination will slowly stretch Spencer's maxilla while he is growing to fix the relationship of his jaws.

Basically, Spencer will have an expander placed in his mouth and will wear the mask at night while he sleeps.  He does not have to wear it during the day, meaning he does not have to wear it in public.  Total treatment time is 9-12 months.  There is no guarantee that he won't have to have braces to align his teeth in the future (it's pretty likely, actually, that he will), but this will fix his jaw.

This is what the mask looks like:
Another good thing:  Our insurance should pay for half of it and it's actually not nearly as expensive as what I had anticipated (or what I paid for my treatment).

I did decide after this latest appointment that there is no way we can start allergy shots when Spencer turns 5 like his allergist wants.  I just can't do that to him.  We'll just have to wait until he is 6 and all done with this mask.

Good decision?